It def is hard on the body and a more advanced gear. I have also not had better strength gains than when using tren. Tren is very strong.
Thats why its my favorite. You'll have to weigh the pros and cons and go with which one you feel safer with. Its all a risk.
I prefer the short esters because if you notice sides you can stop them quickly as opposed to something with a longer acting ester like test e or deca. Like you said you are getting ready for summer, and Round Face is not hot, so I wouldn't go with dbol.
at 23, you could run test e and deca and have great gains and very little bloat with the right aromatase inhibitor. If you haven't ran deca in a cycle yet it will obviously be worth running. Then you could wait and run the tren on your next one when you have more experience and more knowledge of what different gears do to your body.