I used to be fat, so I know what it's like. And I am sorry, but I cannot think as negatively as some of you. Unless you've been there, you don't know what it's like. You have no idea what that person may be up against, or what that person has tried, etc. It is easy for us to say these things, but those who have been on the fat side of the fence, knows what it's like to go through losing all that weight. And it ain't easy. I was lucky. I had a very, very supportive family. I could go on and on about this all day..lol..I have so much to say, but I'll spare you all